1826 –26/05/1897
Second wife of Thomas Austin
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Plot 393 Mary Austin (née Hards)
Mary was born in 1826 in the village of Titley, Herefordshire, the third child and first daughter of Leonard and Elizabeth Hards.
Leonard was a gamekeeper, born in Sussex, but like most estate owners his employer, the Earl of Plymouth, preferred to appoint gamekeepers from as far away as possible from their estates to ensure there was no collusion with the local poachers.
In April 1816 the Earl appointed “his menial servant” Leonard Hards as keeper to the manors of Cofton Hackett, Bonehill, Gannow, Bittle, Tardebig, Bordesley, Bromsgrove and Dyers and the Rectory of Bromsgrove, but with no permission to shoot game.
The Hards, with children Henry, Benjamin, Mary and Eliza, lived in Titley until at least 1827, but had moved to Llanilar, Cardiganshire by 1830 when Harriet was born. Leonard jnr. followed in 1832.
The 1841 census records Leonard and Elizabeth and their four youngest children at Dolygebynen, Llanilar and shows that Leonard was still employed as a gamekeeper.
By 1849, when Elizabeth died, she and Leonard had moved to Saldon Lodge, Mursley in Buckinghamshire. Leonard and his son Benjamin emigrated to Australia in 1852.
It is impossible to tell where Mary encountered Berkhamsted plumber, widower Thomas Austin, but they married in Berkhamsted in late 1855.
The marriage gave Mary two step-children: George (buried here with his wife in Plot 145) and Caroline. Her own first child, Mary Ann, was born in 1856 but died the next year and lies with her father in plot 193. Fortunately Albert Edward was born 20 March 1863 and was to have a long life.
The family lived in the High Street and Thomas’s business was clearly prospering – he employed several men and they could afford a live-in servant.
Thomas died in February 1885 aged 61. He is buried here in Plot 193 with his first wife and children of both marriages who died in infancy.
Mary went to live with her step-daughter Caroline who had married farmer and pheasant breeder Frederick Dwight. They lived at Fairview, Ellesmere Road and had six children. In the 1891 census Mary was shown as living “on own means”.
At some point she moved to stay with her son Albert Edward, now a Church of England clergyman living in Hitchin. She died at his home 8, Trevor Road, Hitchin on 26 May 1897 aged 71.
Albert went on to be Vicar of Holy Trinity, Halsead, Essex, but returned to Berkhamsted to retire. He died in 1947 and is buried with her here.